Where ever we go we see love. I sometimes get the impression that everything evolves around it. Whenever you turn on the TV you will see a show about love. There will always be another Dr.Phil giving a good relationship advice or another desperate house wife cheating on her husband before the big breakup. We see the same trend on Amazon. The romantic section is probably one of the biggest ones and titles like how to get your ex back are readily available. In celebrity magazines we see the same thing. They publish information about celebrity breakups and cheating.

But this obsession with the topic has been there for centuries and I don't think it will change any time soon.

Even though it sounds bad, I think it's a good thing. I actually think that some industrialized countries should concentrate more on love. Because their number of citizens is slowly going down. In many of those countries people think more about their work and how they will succeed in life. While in reality success is often a matter of having a good family. Pure things such as love are replaced by values such as greed. It's not to say that there are no 'love' shows in those countries. Too bad that many of these shows display romance in a negative light. Breakups and unfaithful lovers are put on the spot light, while a simple happy family is considered boring and stays in the background. Same goes for books that give you the latest advice on how to dump someone or how to get over being dumped. Titles that talk about how to get your ex boyfriend back are rare and far between. In my humble opinion those things will do more good than harm.

In some states there are a divorce rates of 40%. When will it end? Those are mind blowing statistics! It's as if people decide to jump the ship and shop elsewhere too quickly. What happened to 'till death do us apart'? If a husband finds out that his wife is cheating he might jump the boat but... This act of betrayal, could have been provoked by something. May be it was caused by a grave mistake on the part of the husband? Could it be a minor change in the way the couple communicated? In many instances it is a small difference that makes a big change. Many estranged women say that they left because they weren't getting any acknowledgment.

So let's appreciate each other more. Try to be more selfless and your partner will do the same. Let's be tolerant to each other. Let's choose affection instead of resentment. Because life is too short to carry around the extra luggage of hate.

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